talking about being single

Intermediate Level Conversations- Series 1- Lesson 9- Talking About Being Single

In this lesson, you learn 10 questions with sample answers for having a normal conversation talking about being single. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion.

 

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Talking About Dating And Relationship

 

Conversation about Being Single

Here is a list of 10 discussion questions with sample answers for practicing English speaking with your language partner.

 

  • Why do you think some people remain single? Explain. 

Well, there’s no one answer, of course! It’s a combination of things, I think. Some people prioritize their careers, education, or travel. Maybe they haven’t found the right person yet, or maybe they just enjoy their independence. It’s important to remember that everyone has their own path and their own timeline.

 

  • Would you like to be single all your life? Why or why not?

Hmmm, it’s a tough one. I can’t imagine being single forever. I think being in a loving relationship is something special, a chance to share life’s adventures with someone. But that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t be happy and fulfilled if I were single. It’s about finding happiness in yourself first, then with someone else.

 

  • Do you think that single people like being single? Explain. 

Absolutely! Being single is a time for self-discovery, for pursuing your passions and interests without compromise. It can be a time to build a strong foundation for yourself and learn who you are before sharing your life with another person.

 

  • Is it better to be single or married? Why?

There’s no right or wrong answer! Both have their advantages. Being single gives you freedom and flexibility, while marriage offers companionship, shared responsibilities, and the joy of building a life together. It’s about what makes you happy and fulfilled, not about societal pressures.

 

  • What are the advantages of being single? Explain. 

Oh, so many! You get to focus on your own goals, explore your interests, and have the space to grow and change. You’re not tied down to anyone else’s expectations or schedules. And you have the chance to really get to know yourself and discover what you truly want in life.

 

  • Do you think that single people are happier? Explain. 

Definitely! Happiness comes from within. It’s about finding joy and meaning in your own life, whether you’re single or married.

 

  • Do you think it is easier for a man or a woman to be single? Explain. 

Hmmm, I think it can be different depending on cultural expectations.  In Iran, there’s a lot of societal pressure for women to be married, especially as they get older. For men, there’s less pressure, but still, there are expectations about marriage and starting a family.

 

  • How do you think single people feel on Valentine’s Day? Explain. 

Honestly, it can be a mixed bag.  Sometimes it feels like everyone else is celebrating love while you’re alone. But it’s also a great opportunity to focus on self-love and do something special for yourself. Maybe treat yourself to a delicious meal, watch a movie with friends, or indulge in your favorite hobby.

 

  • Do you think that there is a soulmate somewhere for everyone? Explain. 

I believe in the possibility of finding someone who complements you perfectly, but I also think that love takes effort and work. Finding “the one” doesn’t mean you’ll automatically have a perfect relationship. It’s about choosing to love and support each other, even when things get tough.

 

  • In your country, what do people think about a man in his 30s who is unmarried? Why?

It’s a complex issue. In Iranian culture, marriage is highly valued and people expect men to be married by a certain age. There can be pressure from family and society to get married, and sometimes, it can lead to judgment. But it’s also important to remember that people have different paths and that choosing to remain single doesn’t make someone less worthy or less valuable.

 

More discussion questions for being single

For a longer conversation about singles, you can use the below discussion questions for being single

  1. In your country, what do people think about a woman in her 30s who is unmarried? Why?
  2. Do you think it is fair that in some countries married people get tax benefits and single people don’t? Explain.
  3. What are the advantages of being married? Explain.
  4. Do you know any single parents? Can you describe their lifestyles?
  5. What does your culture think about single parenting? Explain.
  6. Does your government support single parents? Explain.
  7. Do partners in your culture sometimes live in separate houses?
  8. Are there any perks of being single? Explain.
  9. Would you rather be single in your whole life or experience several marriages & divorces?
  10. In your country do single people of the opposite sex ever live together as roommates, not as boyfriend or girlfriend?

 

 

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