Advance Level Conversations- Series 5- Lesson 2- Talk about wars
In this lesson, you learn 10 conversation questions about war with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing war. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion. War is a deeply complex and emotional topic that has shaped human history for centuries. It raises questions about duty, morality, and the consequences of national and personal choices. Whether one views it through the lens of service, sacrifice, or senseless destruction, it opens many avenues for meaningful conversation.
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1- Do you want to become a soldier? Why or why not?
I respect soldiers a lot, but I don’t see myself becoming one. The lifestyle is very disciplined and physically demanding, and I feel my strengths are better suited elsewhere. I prefer helping people through communication, teaching, or creativity. That being said, I admire the courage and commitment it takes. It’s just not the path I’d personally choose. Everyone plays a different role in supporting their country.
2- Would you volunteer to become a soldier? In what circumstances would you feel compelled to do so?
I might volunteer if my country was truly in danger and needed every citizen to step up. In times of extreme crisis or injustice, I’d feel more compelled to help, especially if others were suffering. But I’d probably try to help in other ways first, like through organizing, logistics, or communications. Direct combat wouldn’t be my first choice. Still, I believe in standing up for what’s right when it really matters.
3- Would you be a conscientious objector if your country went to war? What moral beliefs would guide that decision?
Possibly, yes if the war was unjust or harmed innocent people. I believe in peace, diplomacy, and defending human rights. If the war was about power or politics instead of protecting people, I wouldn’t feel right supporting it. Everyone has a line they won’t cross, and mine is about protecting life rather than destroying it. I’d rather serve in non-combat roles if possible.
4- Which job would you like to have in the army? How do you think your skills would match that role?
I’d probably choose a role in communication, education, or translation. I enjoy working with language and people, and I’m good at organizing information. Maybe something like public relations, interpreter, or even helping train new recruits. I’m not built for combat, but I could help the team stay informed and connected. Every role in the military matters, not just the ones on the front lines.
5- Is having an army a waste of money in your country? Can national security be ensured without a military?
It depends on how the military is managed. Having an army is necessary to protect national sovereignty, but overspending can definitely be a problem. If the money is used wisely for defense, training, and peacekeeping then it makes sense. I do think diplomacy and strong international relationships are also key to security. A mix of military readiness and peaceful negotiation is the smartest approach.
6- Would you fight for another country other than your own? Under what conditions would that feel justified to you?
Only if it was for a truly just cause like defending innocent lives, stopping genocide, or protecting human rights. I wouldn’t fight just for politics or territory. If another country was in crisis and asked for international help, and I could contribute in a meaningful way, I’d consider it. Sometimes standing up for humanity goes beyond borders. But I’d still prefer to support through humanitarian aid or logistics.
7- How can countries prevent conflicts when other nations are not trying to bring peace? Can diplomacy work without mutual effort?
It’s really tough when one side refuses to cooperate. But I think persistence, pressure from global organizations, and public opinion can make a difference. Diplomacy is slow, but it builds long-term trust. Even if the other side isn’t trying, showing restraint and maintaining dialogue can reduce damage. It’s not perfect, but war usually causes more problems than it solves.
8- Do you think women should be soldiers? Why or why not?
Yes, absolutely. If a woman wants to serve and meets the requirements, she should have the same opportunity as anyone else. Women have proven themselves capable in leadership, combat, and support roles. Strength isn’t only physical it’s mental, emotional, and strategic too. Gender shouldn’t limit someone’s potential. Everyone should be judged by their skills, not their gender.
9- What is military service? Is it compulsory in your country? How does compulsory service affect national identity?
Military service is when citizens serve in the armed forces for a period of time, either by choice or requirement. In my country, it’s not compulsory, but in some countries it is. When it’s required, it can build discipline and national pride, but it can also feel forced for those who don’t want to serve. It really depends on how it’s managed and the culture around it. If done right, it can create unity and a stronger sense of citizenship.
10- Do many young people in your country join the army? Why/why not?
Not that many, honestly. Most young people prefer to go to university or start working. Some see the army as too tough or not aligned with their career goals. However, those who do join usually do it out of a sense of duty or interest in discipline and structure. It’s a respectable choice, but not a very common one among the younger crowd here.
More discussion questions about war
For a longer conversation about war, you can use the below discussion questions about war:
1- What do you think of people whose job is in the army? Do you see them as heroes, protectors, or something else?
2- Do you think soldiers are well paid? How should a country value their sacrifice and service?
3- Have you ever lived in a country at war? If yes, what was your experience?
4- What things would you like to send your partner in the army? What do you think would give them the most comfort?
5- What do you think soldiers away from home miss the most? How might this affect their morale and performance?
6- What do you think is the average age for soldiers in the world? Why do you think youth are drawn into military service?
7- Why do you think people want to become soldiers? Is it patriotism, career, necessity, or something else?
8- Is war necessary? Can peace ever be sustained without the threat of war?
9- Does war have any positive consequences for mankind? Can innovation or unity arise from conflict?
10- What causes countries to engage in a war? Are the causes usually political, economic, or ideological?
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