Advance Level Conversations- Series 5- Lesson 5- Talk about memories
In this lesson, you learn 10 conversation questions about memories with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing memories. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion. Memories are the threads that weave the story of our lives. They carry emotions, lessons, and connections that shape who we are today. Reflecting on memories allows us to appreciate the past and better understand our present.
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1- Do you have a good memory or a bad memory
I’d say I have a pretty decent memory, especially for things like conversations or random facts. But I do sometimes forget where I placed things like my charger or water bottle. I remember details from years ago but can forget what I ate for lunch yesterday. It’s kind of a mixed bag. So, not perfect, but not terrible either.
2- Would you like to have a perfect memory? Why or why not? How would it change your life?
Having a perfect memory sounds cool, but I don’t think I’d want it. Remembering every single detail might be overwhelming, especially the bad ones. It would be helpful for studying or work though. I think it could make life more productive but maybe also more stressful. Some things are better forgotten.
3- Who do you know who has the best memory? Can you tell us about them?
My friend Aisha has an incredible memory. She remembers dates, names, and even what you wore at a party three years ago! It’s actually impressive and a little scary. She’s great at storytelling because she recalls every little detail. I always count on her to remind me of things I forget.
4- Who do you know who has the worst memory? Can you tell us about them?
My uncle probably has the worst memory in the family. He always forgets where he parks his car or even his phone, which is usually in his hand! It’s kind of funny, but also a bit concerning sometimes. We have to double-check everything with him. He’s always saying, “Wait, did I do that?”
5- What’s your earliest memory? When was it? Can you tell us about your earliest memories in detail?
My earliest memory is from when I was about three or four. I remember sitting on a swing in my grandmother’s garden while my mom was hanging laundry. The smell of sun-dried clothes and the sound of birds really stuck with me. It’s strange how clear that moment is. It felt very peaceful.
6- What’s your most vivid memory? When was it? Can you tell us in detail about it?
One of my most vivid memories is graduating from university. The moment I heard my name called and walked up the stage felt like a dream. I remember the heat, the cheers, and my family’s smiles so clearly. It was emotional because I knew how hard I’d worked for that moment. It still gives me goosebumps.
7- Have you ever forgotten something important, like your keys or your phone? Can you tell the us what you did?
Yes, I’ve definitely forgotten my keys more than once. One time I locked myself out and had to call my roommate to come home early he wasn’t too happy! Now I always double-check before leaving. I even keep a spare key hidden now. Lesson learned the hard way!
8- Have you ever forgotten an important date, like a birthday or an anniversary? Can you tell us what happened?
I once forgot my best friend’s birthday, and I felt terrible. I only realized when she posted something on social media. I made up for it with a surprise dinner and a small gift. She forgave me, but I still cringe thinking about it. Now I use reminders for all important dates.
9- What does it take to be a very forgetful person? Can you hold a job or relationship? Explain
Being forgetful can definitely make things challenging. It can affect your work performance or make relationships harder if you forget important things. But with tools like reminders and routines, it’s manageable. I think self-awareness and effort make a big difference. So yes, you can still hold a job or relationship; it just takes extra planning.
10- As people grow older, sometimes the distant past is easier to remember than the near past. Why do you think this is? Have you ever seen examples of this?
I’ve noticed that with older relatives, they can tell stories from decades ago with perfect detail, but forget what they had for lunch. I think long-term memories get stored deeper and are more emotionally connected. Short-term memory fades faster, especially with age. I’ve seen this in my grandfather he remembers his childhood clearly but asks the same question twice in an hour. It’s fascinating and a little sad at the same time.
More discussion questions about memories
For a longer conversation about memories, you can use the below discussion questions about memories:
1- Memories make the man. What do you think this means? Can you give some examples.
2- Those who forget the past will repeat it. What do you think this means? Give examples.
3- Many people find that a certain sound or smell brings back a childhood memory very strongly (such as the smell of a food that your mother often cooked when you were young). Why do you think this is? What has this effect on you? Give examples.
4- Many people find that visiting a certain place brings back a childhood memory very strongly (such as the scene of an old family holiday). Give examples.
5- If you could edit your memories, which ones would you erase and why? Which ones would you make clearer and more vivid?
6- Do you have a photographic memory? Do you know anyone who has a photographic memory?
7- After tragic events or a long relationship break-up, what would you do to remove all bad memories? Explain
8- What things is it important to remember? Why?
9- What music brings back memories for you. Describe the memory. Why do you think this is?
10- At college, we have taken many courses and memorized many concepts. After 3 or 7 years of graduation, how much do you still remember? Is it ok to forget all of our learnings? Explain
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