Advance Level Conversations- Series 4- Lesson 8- Talk about religion, faith & spirituality
In this lesson, you learn 16 conversation questions about the meaning of life with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing the meaning of life. Life is one of the most profound and personal subjects we can explore. Everyone experiences it differently, shaped by their beliefs, values, and choices. Discussing the meaning of life opens doors to understanding ourselves and others in new and deeper ways.
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1- What do you think is life all about? How did you come to that understanding?
I think life is about growth, connection, and finding meaning in the everyday moments. Over time, through experiences and relationships, I’ve learned that life isn’t just about achievements or possessions but about how we touch others and learn about ourselves. Sometimes, it’s about embracing challenges and using them to become better. I came to this understanding by reflecting on what made me happy or fulfilled, and noticing it often wasn’t material things but shared experiences and personal growth. Life feels like a journey where the meaning evolves as we do.
2- What do you feel most people’s lives are driven by? Can you explain?
Most people seem driven by a mix of purpose, security, and connection. They want to feel safe, have a reason to get up in the morning, and belong somewhere. Sometimes this purpose is work or family, sometimes faith or hobbies. Society also pushes people to chase success or approval, which can be motivating but also stressful. At the core, I think people just want to feel valued and to make a difference, even if in small ways.
3- What image or metaphor has best described your life? A race, a circus or something else?
I’d say my life feels more like a winding river. It has twists and turns, calm stretches and rapids, but it keeps flowing forward. Sometimes it’s peaceful and predictable, other times it’s chaotic and surprising. Like a river, it adapts to the landscape but keeps its own path. This image fits because life isn’t always a straight line or a competition; it’s about going with the flow while moving ahead.
4- What if life on earth is really preparation for eternity, how would people act differently? Can you give an example?
If life is preparation for eternity, people might focus more on kindness, forgiveness, and values that last beyond material things. For example, instead of chasing wealth or status, someone might spend more time helping others or building meaningful relationships. They might be less afraid of failure because they see it as part of a bigger picture. It could encourage more patience and understanding, knowing the temporary struggles here don’t define the whole story.
5- What is your opinion on why a lot of people have trouble believing in God? How do you think upbringing or society influences this?
I think many people struggle with believing in God because of doubts, unanswered questions, or bad experiences with religion. Upbringing plays a big role—if someone grows up in a family or society that’s skeptical or indifferent toward faith, they might not have a strong foundation. Society’s emphasis on science and individualism can also make belief seem less necessary or harder to accept. Sometimes it’s also about personal pain or injustice that makes belief difficult.
6- What is “worship” to you? Can you elaborate?
To me, worship is a way of expressing deep respect, gratitude, and love toward something greater than ourselves. It’s not just rituals but a heartfelt attitude—feeling connected and humbled. Worship can be quiet reflection, singing, helping others, or simply living in a way that honors values and faith. It’s about focusing beyond the self and recognizing a bigger purpose or presence.
7- Can we make friends with God? What would that kind of relationship look like to you?
Yes, I think we can be friends with God in the sense of having a close, personal, and trusting relationship. It would be like talking openly, sharing fears and joys, and feeling supported no matter what. This friendship would be based on honesty, patience, and unconditional care. It wouldn’t feel distant or formal but warm and comforting, like having a guide and companion through life.
8- Have you ever prayed to God? What prompted you to do so?
Yes, I have prayed many times. Often it was during moments of uncertainty, stress, or when I needed guidance. Sometimes I prayed just to say thanks or to feel connected. Prayer helps me calm my mind and remind myself I’m not alone in facing life’s challenges.
9- What do you think about religious people worshiping God in churches or in temples? Why do you think communal worship is important to some?
I think communal worship is important because it brings people together to share faith and support one another. It creates a sense of belonging and unity, which can be very encouraging. Worshipping in a group also helps focus attention and deepen the experience through shared rituals and songs. For many, it strengthens their faith and gives a sense of community.
10- Which is easier for people, public or private worship? What makes one more comfortable than the other?
It depends on the person. Some find private worship easier because it’s personal, quiet, and flexible without pressure. Others feel more comfortable in public worship because the group energy motivates them and they enjoy shared expressions of faith. Comfort can come from personality, past experiences, and the environment of worship.
11- Do you think it’s appropriate to express anger to God? How might doing so affect a person’s faith or relationship with God?
Yes, I think it’s natural and okay to express anger to God. Being honest about feelings, even negative ones, can actually deepen a relationship by showing trust and realness. It allows a person to work through doubts or pain instead of hiding them. This openness can strengthen faith by making it more authentic and personal.
12- What do you think people usually fear when thinking of joining a new religion? Can you think of a specific challenge someone might face?
People often fear being judged, losing their identity, or having to change their lifestyle too much. A specific challenge might be feeling isolated from family or friends who don’t share the same beliefs. They may also worry about learning new practices or not fitting in socially.
13- What image or metaphor has best described your life? (E.g. A race, a circus…) What life experiences led you to that comparison?
Like I said before, my life feels like a winding river because of the many changes and unexpected turns I’ve faced. Moments of calm and times of chaos have taught me to adapt and keep moving forward. This metaphor fits my experience of growth through uncertainty and finding peace in the flow.
14- Can an atheist or disbeliever in God still be a spiritual person? Explain
In a word, yes. In my opinion, true religion is only achievable via self-discovery by being able to experience the highest good spiritually rather than attending routine rituals or mechanical acts of worships. Contemporary religions are like business enterprises. So just because someone does not believe in God, we can not cast doubt on his/her spirituality. In my opinion, the true lesson of all religions and spiritual deities is the same: be good and do good to others.
15- What do you think about people going to churches or temples regularly? How might regular attendance influence their spiritual life?
Regular attendance can provide structure and discipline in one’s spiritual life. It helps maintain focus, learn teachings, and build a supportive community. For many, it keeps their faith active and nurtures growth through shared worship and study.
16- Which is easier for people, going to a religious event or praying to God privately? Why do you think one feels more accessible or meaningful?
Praying privately might feel easier because it’s flexible and private, so there’s less pressure or formality. But some find religious events more meaningful because of the shared energy, rituals, and community. Accessibility depends on personality and what makes someone feel closest to their faith.
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