Advance Level Conversations- Series 4- Lesson 1- Talk about fears
In this lesson, you learn 10 conversation questions about fears with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing fears. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion. Everyone experiences fear, it’s a natural and powerful emotion. Fears can range from small anxieties to deep phobias, shaping how we respond to situations. Talking about our fears can help us understand ourselves better and even overcome them.
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Conversation Questions about Feelings
1- Are there any parts of the city where you live which you are afraid to visit after dark? Where? Why?
Yes, there are parts of my city that feel unsafe after dark, mostly isolated alleys or poorly lit areas near abandoned buildings. It’s not that something always happens there, but the atmosphere feels sketchy. You can sense people being more cautious in those spots. It’s probably due to stories we’ve heard or past incidents. Safety just feels more fragile at night.
2- Are there certain weather conditions that scare people? What are they? Why do people become scared?
Yes, heavy thunderstorms and strong winds can scare people. It’s the loud noises, the unpredictable lightning, and the thought of floods or trees falling. Natural forces feel out of our control, and that’s unsettling. People fear damage or getting stuck in dangerous situations. It’s all tied to survival instincts.
3- Are you afraid to die? Why?
Honestly, yes death is a scary thought. It’s more about the unknown and what comes after, or whether I’ve done enough in life. The idea of leaving behind loved ones or unfinished dreams feels heavy. But at the same time, I try not to dwell on it too much. Living meaningfully helps ease that fear a little.
4- Are you afraid of getting old? Why?
I think I’m more afraid of the limitations that might come with old age than the number itself. Losing independence or health is a tough idea to process. But aging also brings wisdom and experience, which I admire. So, it’s a mix of fear and acceptance. I hope to grow old with peace and purpose.
5- Are there any numbers that people are afraid of in your culture? Why?
Yes, in my culture, the number 4 is often seen as unlucky because it sounds similar to the word for “death” in some Asian languages. Many people avoid it in addresses or elevator floors. It might sound silly, but cultural beliefs run deep. Even if I don’t strongly believe in it, I understand why others do. It’s more about respecting traditions.
6- Do you fear certain insects or animals? Why?
I really don’t like cockroaches or centipedes, they just creep me out! Their unpredictable movements and speed are what get me. Even though I know they’re usually harmless, it’s more of a gut reaction. Some animals just trigger instinctive fear. I try to stay calm, but I still jump if one shows up.
7- Were you afraid on your first day of school? How do you feel now?
I was definitely nervous on my first day at school because everything felt so new. The accents, the system, even the lunchroom was unfamiliar. But now, I feel much more at ease. I’ve made friends, adapted to the environment, and started to enjoy the differences. It just took time and some courage.
8- What are some things which many people are afraid of? Why are they afraid of them?
Many people fear public speaking, failure, or being judged. These fears often stem from wanting to be accepted and not make mistakes. Even successful people struggle with them. It’s just part of being human. Overcoming them usually takes practice and a shift in mindset.
9- What is your biggest fear in life? Are you afraid that it might come true?
My biggest fear is not living up to my potential or wasting time. Sometimes I worry that I’ll look back with regret. It’s a fear that motivates me, though it pushes me to try harder. I do worry it might come true if I don’t stay focused. But I try to take small steps toward my goals each day.
10- Do you ever have nightmares (bad dreams)? What are they about? How often do you have nightmares?
Yes, I do get nightmares sometimes, usually about being chased, failing something important, or losing someone. They’re not super frequent, maybe once or twice a month. They feel so real in the moment, though. I usually wake up feeling uneasy, but it fades after a while. I think stress or anxiety triggers them.
More discussion questions about the fears
For a longer conversation about fears, you can use the below discussion questions about fears:
1- Have you ever seen any reality TV shows where people face their fears for money? Would you ever face one of your fears for money? Do you find this kind of show interesting to watch?
2- Are you afraid of being ill? What disease are you most afraid of? Why?
3- Are you afraid of not having a long life? Why?
4- If you ‘put the fear of God into someone,’ how do you think that person feels?
5- Are you afraid of speaking English? A foreign language? In front of many people? At official functions?
6- Are there any numbers that people are afraid of in your culture? Explain.
7- Do you think young children should be allowed to watch horror movies?
8- What is the scariest movie you have ever seen? Describe.
9- How do you react when you see something frightening?
10- What was the most frightening experience you’ve had?
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