Advance Level Conversations- Series 3- Lesson 2
In this lesson, you learn 10 conversation questions about names with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing names. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion. Names are more than just labels, they carry history, meaning, and personal significance. Whether inherited, chosen, or adapted, our names often tell stories about who we are and where we come from.
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1- Do you remember people by name or face? Explain
I usually remember people by their face first, then their name comes back to me later. Faces stick better in my mind, especially if I’ve had a conversation with them. Names can be tricky unless they’re unique or I hear them often. But once I link the face with the name a few times, it sticks. It’s just how my brain works naturally.
2- Are you happy with your name? If not, why not?
I’m quite happy with my name. It feels like a part of who I am and reflects my cultural background. I think it’s important to have a name you can connect with. Even if it’s long or uncommon, it’s still yours. I’ve grown to appreciate it more over time.
3- What are some of the most common names for boys and girls in your country? Explain
In my country, common boy names include Adam, Muhammad, and Daniel. For girls, names like Aisyah, Nur, and Sarah are quite popular. These names are often influenced by religion and tradition. Some parents also combine names to create something unique. It’s interesting how names can reflect trends too.
4- Are there any names you absolutely hate? If so, what are they? Why do you hate them?
I don’t hate any name in particular, but some overly complicated or hard-to-pronounce names can be a bit frustrating. Especially when they’re spelled in a confusing way. It’s not the name’s fault, but more the awkwardness it creates in conversations. That said, every name means something to someone. So I try to be respectful of that.
5- Do you think names shape our personality? To what degree?
I think names can shape our personality to some extent, especially how others perceive and treat us. A unique name might make someone stand out, while a common name might help them blend in. Sometimes, we grow into the energy of our names. But personality is mostly shaped by experience and environment. Names are just the first impression.
6- Does your name have a meaning? If so, what does it mean?
Yes, my name has a meaning. “Sharmela” often relates to being calm or modest in some interpretations. It’s a name used in South Indian culture. I like that it has a soft, graceful feel to it. Knowing the meaning makes it more special.
7- Do you have a middle name? What is it? If you have multiple middle names, what are they?
I don’t officially have a middle name, but sometimes people use their father’s name or initials as part of their full name. In formal documents, it can appear as an extended part of the first name. It depends on the cultural and legal setting. I keep it simple for everyday use.
8- In your culture, when you introduce yourself, does the last name come first or the first name? Why?
In my culture, the first name usually comes first when we introduce ourselves. But in formal settings, especially in documents, sometimes the last name or family name may come after a slash or is included in initials. It’s more about convenience and clarity. In conversation, people just go with the first name mostly.
9- Do you have a nickname? If so, what is it? How did you get it?
Yes, I do have a nickname! Some friends call me “Shar”, “Sharme” or “Mela”, just a short form of my full name. It started when people found my name a bit long to say every time. Over time, it just stuck. I like nicknames because they make things feel more personal.
10- How many letters are in your name? How many syllables are in your name? Does your first name have the same number of syllables as your last name?
My full name has around 17 letters. My first name has 3 syllables, and my last name also has about 3. It feels pretty balanced. Sometimes people are surprised by the length, but I’m used to it. It flows nicely once you get the rhythm.
More discussion questions about names.
For a longer conversation about names, you can use the below discussion questions about names:
1- What do you think of people who name their children after months, seasons or days of the week? What do you think of parents who make up unique names for their children?
2- Some parents give their children names in alphabetical order. Do you think this is a good idea?
3- What was the name of your first girlfriend or boyfriend? Have you ever dated two different people with the same first name?
4- What are some titles you can think of? (e.g. Mr., Mrs., Professor, Duke etc.)
5- Do you think it is okay to give pets human names?
6- What is the most popular name for a dog in your country? How about cats?
7- Do you know the names of some famous race horses? If so, please name a few.
8- Can you name some famous world leaders? Can you name some famous composers? Can you name some famous artists? Can you name some Western foods? Can you name some Eastern foods?
9- Have you ever known a boy that has a “girl’s name” or a boy that had a “girl’s name”? What was it like for them?
10- If you are rich, do you donate money to a local school so that they name the school yours?
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