Advance Level Conversations- Series 3- Lesson 9- Talk about sex partner
In this lesson, you learn 10 conversation questions about sex partners with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing sex partners. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion. Sexual conversations between partners can be a powerful way to deepen intimacy, explore desires, and build trust. These questions are designed to spark honest and playful dialogue, helping both partners express their fantasies and boundaries.
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Conversation Questions about Sex
1- Do you ever read erotic fiction? What kind of stories turn you on the most?
I’ve skimmed a few erotic fiction stories out of curiosity. Stories with strong emotional tension and slow build-up tend to catch my interest more than anything overly graphic. There’s something hotter about suggestion than explicit detail. Especially when there’s a clever power dynamic or witty banter involved. It’s more about the mental spark than just the physical stuff.
2- Where’s the weirdest place you’ve had sex? How did it happen?
I haven’t personally had that experience, but imagining something spontaneous like a secluded beach at night or even a locked library after hours sounds adventurous. The thrill of getting caught mixed with the intimacy could definitely make it more intense. But logistically, probably not as smooth as it seems in the movies.
3- What’s your favorite part of my body? What do you love doing to that part?
Again, speaking hypothetically, I think eyes are incredibly attractive because they say a lot without words. But if we’re talking more physical and flirty, a well-defined back or jawline can be super appealing. I imagine tracing fingers slowly there or giving soft kisses could feel pretty electrifying. It’s the little things that create that spark.
4- Where on your body do you most like to be touched? Why?
I’d probably say neck and ears because there’s something about that spot that’s both sensitive and intimate. Gentle touches or soft whispers there can give you chills in the best way. It’s a great blend of vulnerability and excitement. Not to mention it’s often overlooked, which makes it even more surprising.
5- If you could have sex anywhere in the world, where would it be? Why?
Somewhere scenic and private like a cozy cabin during snowfall or a quiet rooftop with a city view. It’s less about luxury and more about mood and atmosphere. Feeling like you’re in your own world with someone just makes everything feel deeper. The quiet and stillness would amplify every little sensation.
6- What’s the best sex you’ve ever had? What made it so memorable or intense?
Since I don’t have real experiences to pull from, I imagine the best sex would be a mix of intense chemistry, emotional connection, and a shared sense of adventure. Like laughing between kisses, getting completely lost in the moment, and not worrying about anything else. That kind of emotional safety probably makes everything more vivid and unforgettable.
7- Have you ever been caught having sex? What happened?
Nope, never been caught but I’d imagine it’d be part hilarious and part mortifying. The kind of thing you’d laugh about later but be panicking in the moment. Definitely adds a whole new level of adrenaline. Probably a good story to share… much, much later.
8- What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Purely guessing, I think the shortest might happen when emotions are running super high and the anticipation has been building for ages. And the longest? Probably when someone’s being extra playful and teasing, drawing things out until you’re practically begging. Both have their appeal depending on the mood, honestly.
9- Do you prefer one night stands or longer-term sexual partners?
I’d lean toward longer-term sexual partners. There’s just something hotter about knowing someone deeply and being able to explore each other without any rush. The comfort, trust, and mutual understanding can make things way more satisfying. But I get why some might enjoy the thrill of one night stands too just not really my vibe.
10- Have you ever cried or fallen asleep during sex?
Crying maybe I think that would only happen if there were deep emotional release involved. As for falling asleep… maybe after, when everything’s calm and warm and your body’s completely relaxed. It’s probably one of the best ways to crash out peacefully. But during? That would be a different kind of awkward.
More discussion questions about the sex partner
For a longer conversation about sex partner, you can use the below discussion questions about sex partner:
1- Do you prefer to give or receive? What makes that more enjoyable for you?
2-When was the last time you had a dirty dream?
3- What’s the first thing that sexually attracts you to someone? Can you describe what makes that feature so magnetic?
4- When it comes to BDSM, how far have you gone or would go? Is there something you’d like to try but haven’t yet?
5- What’s your dirtiest sexual fantasy? Can you describe what about it excites you the most?
6- Do you enjoy shower sex? What do you like or dislike about it?
7- Do you like to be spanked? How hard or soft do you prefer it?
8- Have you ever fantasized about someone else during sex? What do you think triggered that fantasy?
9- In your opinion, do teenagers need to watch porn movies to learn about sex? Explain
10- What’s a surefire way to turn you on? Can you walk me through how it works best?
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