Conversation Questions for Discussing Parenting

Advance Level Conversations- Series 2- Lesson 7

In this lesson, you learn 10 conversation questions about parenting with sample answers for having a normal conversation discussing parenting. We also have added 10 extra conversation questions if you decide to extend your discussion. Parenting is a journey filled with growth, challenges, and joy. Every parent navigates it differently based on values, experiences, and goals.

 

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1- Do you think that you are a good parent? Why?

I do my best to be a good parent. I listen to my kids, try to understand their needs, and support them emotionally and mentally. I’m not perfect, but I always try to grow and learn from my mistakes. Being present and showing love consistently matters most. I believe parenting is about effort, not just instinct.

 

2- Do you think your parents were good parents? Do you think your children will be good parents?

Yes, I think my parents were good parents in their own way. They raised me with values and worked hard for the family. As for my children, I hope they’ll be good parents too. They’re kind and observant, and I believe they’ll learn from both our strengths and weaknesses.

 

3- What are some things that your parents did that you would never do? Why?

One thing my parents did that I wouldn’t repeat is dismissing emotions by saying “toughen up.” I believe it’s important to acknowledge and validate kids’ feelings. Emotional health matters, and children should feel safe to express themselves without judgment.

 

4- What are some things that you have seen other parents do that you would never do? Give some examples.

I’ve seen some parents shame their kids in public, especially on social media, and that’s something I would never do. It breaks a child’s confidence and can damage trust. Also, forcing kids into rigid expectations without understanding their interests feels unfair to me.

 

5- What do you think are some of the most difficult problems faced by parents? Explain

One of the hardest parts of parenting is balancing work, life, and emotional presence. Raising a child while dealing with financial stress, time constraints, and personal struggles isn’t easy. Plus, dealing with peer pressure, technology, and mental health adds more layers. Being consistent while staying patient is tough but important.

 

6- Have you ever changed cloth diapers with safety pins and rubber pants before? Share your experience.

Yes, I’ve used cloth diapers with safety pins and rubber pants. It was a bit of a learning curve, especially getting the pins right without poking tiny fingers! But it felt eco-friendly and personal, and after a few tries, I got the hang of it. It definitely made me appreciate modern diapers more.

 

7- How do you cope with sibling rivalry? Describe

With sibling rivalry, I try to give each child their own space and make time for individual attention. I also encourage open communication and teach them to resolve conflicts respectfully. It helps to remind them they’re on the same team and highlight their strengths. Sometimes, a little humor and redirection go a long way.

 

8- How do you reward your children for the good things that they do?

I reward my kids with praise, quality time, and sometimes small treats or outings. I also let them pick something fun to do, like a game or movie. It’s not always about material rewards like encouragement and recognition. They feel proud when their efforts are noticed.

 

9- Are all couples who can have children qualified enough to be parents? Why?

Honestly, not everyone who can have kids is fully ready to parent. Parenting takes emotional maturity, patience, and commitment. It’s more than just providing like it’s about nurturing, guiding, and showing up every day. I think some people grow into the role, but support systems really matter.

 

10- What are the names of some good books on parenting? Give some examples.

Some good books on parenting include “The Whole-Brain Child” by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, “Parenting with Love and Logic” by Foster Cline and Jim Fay, and “How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk” by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. These books offer practical advice and real-life approaches that are easy to follow.

 

More discussion questions about parenting.

 

For a longer conversation about parenting, you can use the below discussion questions about parenting:

 

1- What is the best age range for starting parenting? Explain

2- Do you often read to your children? How often?

3- What kinds of things do you do with your children? What kinds of things would you like to do with your children?

4- Do you think boys are more expensive than girls or vice versa? Why?

5- Do you think boys are easier to take care of than girls or vice versa? Why?

6- Would you allow your son or daughter to pierce body parts? If so, what parts of the body would you allow to be pierced?

7- Would you allow your child to get a tattoo? What tattoo would you suggest to your child to get?

8- Are there any sports that you consider too dangerous to allow your child to try? If so, what sports?

9- Do you think you spoil your child? In what ways do you spoil your child?

10- Are you careful about your child’s diet? Are there any foods that you do not let your children eat?

 

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