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1- What is good behavior? What is bad behavior?

Good behavior means being respectful, kind, and following social norms like honesty and fairness. Bad behavior, on the other hand, involves being rude, dishonest, or hurting others. It’s really about how your actions affect those around you. If your behavior makes others feel safe and respected, that’s usually considered good. When it causes harm or discomfort, it’s likely bad.

2- Were you well-behaved as a child? Why do some children seem naturally well-mannered, while others seem difficult?

I was fairly well-behaved as a child, mainly because my parents were consistent with rules and I respected them. Some kids seem naturally well-mannered due to personality, but environment plays a huge role. Parenting style, attention, and even the child’s temperament matter. Some children just need more guidance to express themselves properly. It doesn’t mean they’re bad just wired differently.

3- Have you ever not tolerated someone’s behavior? Is there any behavior that you would not find acceptable?

Yes, I’ve definitely not tolerated someone’s behavior before, especially when they were disrespectful or constantly negative. I think certain behaviors like manipulation, bullying, or racism are simply not acceptable. Everyone deserves to be treated with basic decency. Boundaries are healthy, and it’s okay to walk away from toxic behavior. You don’t have to accept everything just to keep the peace.

4- How can we teach our children good behavior? Are words or examples more important?

We teach kids good behavior by showing it ourselves. Words matter, but actions speak louder. If you tell a child to be kind but yell at others, they’ll follow your example, not your words. Consistency, patience, and leading by example are key. Rewarding good behavior and calmly correcting mistakes helps a lot too.

5- Are you influenced by what you see on TV? Or by what you read?

I’d say I’m more influenced by what I read than what I watch. Reading gives more depth and perspective, while TV can be passive. But I do think visuals can shape emotions and attitudes, especially if repeated often. It’s important to be mindful of what you consume. Media shapes how we think, even when we don’t notice it.

6- Do friends influence you? Can you influence your friends? Is it important to surround yourself with good people?

Yes, friends definitely influence me, and I influence them too. It’s a two-way street. That’s why it’s important to be around people who support your growth and values. If your circle brings out the worst in you, it’s time to reconsider it. Good people challenge you to be better, not bitter.

7- How has the media affected society? Has TV made society better or worse?

The media has changed society in big ways, some good, some bad. It spreads awareness and connects us, but it can also spread misinformation or create unrealistic standards. TV has made some people more open-minded, but it’s also made others more passive or judgmental. Like any tool, it depends on how we use it.

8- Do you care about the private behavior of a politician? Can you judge a politician by how he behaves toward his family?

Yes, I care about a politician’s private behavior, especially how they treat their family. It shows their true character. If someone is dishonest or disrespectful at home, it’s hard to believe they’ll be ethical in public office. Personal behavior often reflects leadership style. Trust is built on both private and public integrity.

9- Should people behave differently with friends than with family? Do you treat people who are close to you better than strangers, or vice versa?

I think it’s okay to behave slightly differently with friends and family, but the core values of respect and honesty should stay the same. Sometimes we take those closest to us for granted, but we shouldn’t. I try to treat loved ones better, but I also try to be kind to strangers. How you treat people says a lot about you, regardless of the relationship.

10- Does economic status affect people’s behavior? For example, are people more generous if they have more money?

Economic status can affect behavior, but it’s not always predictable. Some wealthy people are generous, while others aren’t. Likewise, some people with less give so much. Money just amplifies who you already are. If you’re kind and humble, you’ll stay that way with or without money.

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1- Who do you admire? Do you try to be like this person (or people)?

2- Will we be judged for our behavior? Do you believe in a God who punishes bad people and rewards good people?

3- How do you act when you are happy? Do you like being around happy people?

4- Should people act on their feelings? If you are in a bad mood, can people around you tell?

5- Do the clothes you wear affect your behavior? Should school teachers wear casual clothes?

6- Are bad people bad because of circumstances or choices? What about good people?

7- Is there a behavior considered a ‘good’ behavior in one culture and a ‘bad’ behavior in another culture? If yes, give examples.

8- What is the right behavior to use in a restaurant? At school? At a party?

9- They say we first make our habits, then our habits make us. Do you agree/disagree? Explain

10- Would you spank (To slap on the buttocks with a flat object or with the open hand, as for punishment) your child for bad behavior?