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1- What makes it easy to talk to someone? What traits do you look for in a conversation partner?

It’s easy to talk to someone who listens actively and doesn’t interrupt. I enjoy conversations with people who are curious, non-judgmental, and genuinely engaged. A sense of humor helps a lot too it lightens the mood. I also appreciate when someone makes eye contact and responds thoughtfully. It makes the conversation feel balanced and human.

2- Tell me about your favorite types of conversations to have? What do you talk about? How do you know the other person?

I love deep, meaningful conversations about life, personal growth, or language and culture. I often have these chats with close friends, mentors, or people I meet through creative work. We usually talk about goals, challenges, or philosophical ideas. I enjoy when the conversation flows naturally, with mutual respect and openness. It feels more like a shared discovery than just talking.

3- Who is the best conversationalist that you have ever met? Why are they such great conversationalists?

My former university professor comes to mind. She had this rare ability to make anyone feel seen and heard, regardless of their background. Her questions were always sharp but kind, and she had a calm, curious energy. She never made you feel small just genuinely interested. Conversations with her always left you thinking.

4- Have you ever had a great conversation with a complete stranger? What made it so great?

Yes, once on a long train ride. We talked about travel, books, and how people find purpose in life. There was no pressure to impress just two people being honest in the moment. What made it great was the lack of filters and the comfort in knowing we’d probably never meet again. It felt freeing and meaningful at the same time.

5- What is your role in a conversation? Do you dominate? Do you obey?

I usually try to balance listening and contributing. I don’t like dominating conversations, but I also won’t just sit back and say nothing. I tend to observe the energy and pace, and I adjust depending on who I’m talking to. If the other person is shy, I’ll lead a bit more. If they’re talkative, I enjoy listening and chiming in when it feels right.

6- What percent of a conversation do you spend talking? Have you ever tried to consciously change your conversational style? What did you change?

Probably around 40%. I like to listen first and speak with intention. I’ve tried to be more aware of not interrupting and asking better questions. One thing I consciously changed is slowing down my responses giving space for silence instead of filling every gap. It’s made my conversations feel more thoughtful and respectful.

7- Who communicates better: men or women? What makes their style better? What makes it worse?

I think it depends more on personality than gender, but generally, women tend to express emotion and context more clearly. Men often go for directness and brevity. Each has strengths women are often better at empathy in conversations, while men might focus more on problem-solving. The best communication happens when both styles are respected and blended.

8- Do you like to flirt? How do you flirt? What do you say?

Sometimes, yes when it feels natural and mutual. My style is more subtle than bold, with playful teasing and eye contact. I might give a compliment or make a clever joke, depending on the vibe. I enjoy the dance of light tension and humor, but I don’t force it. If the energy’s right, flirting becomes effortless.

9- On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate your conversational skill with the opposite sex? Explain

Probably a 7.5 or 8 out of 10. I’m confident, a good listener, and usually keep things interesting. I can hold deeper conversations, but I also know how to keep it light and fun. Sometimes I overthink or get quiet when I’m really into someone but I’m working on being more relaxed in those moments.

10- Do you like to argue? What do you like to argue about?

Not really, but I do enjoy healthy debates. I like discussing different perspectives, especially on social or cultural topics. If the argument is respectful and constructive, I’m all in. But if it turns into ego or yelling, I’ll step back. I’d rather understand than “win” an argument.

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1- Do you always want to be right? What types of arguments do you hate to lose?

2- What topics should you avoid when talking to a stranger? To a Swiss person? To a Japanese? To an American?

3- What topics are taboos for your culture? What topics are taboo for you personally?

4- How do you feel about talking on the phone? Why?

5- Do you prefer a face-to-face meeting to a phone conversation? Explain

6- Is it true that we pick our friends because of mutual understanding in communication? Explain

7- If you could relive any conversation of your life, what would it be? Why? Explain.

8- How do you feel about being frank? Explain.

9- If you could have the voice of any famous person, whose voice would you want? Why?

10- Would you like to have a career that requires you to talk to a lot of people? Why?